Renowned editor and author Gordon Lish, in his famous writing class used to shock the assembled company by asking whether we were waiting for our parents to die before writing something worth reading. Some students were offended by this suggestion, but I felt it made a great deal of sense. [Today, the writing teacher's comment might get some students thinking about hiring a hit man. Just kidding.] Writers tend to censor themselves for fear of what other people think, especially those at home.
Betsy Lerner, The Forest For the Trees, 2000